Hi, lets talk about how you can apply the Law of Attraction to improve your dating life and relationships.
I would like you to ask yourself this question.
What is my ideal dating life like?
Let’s say that tomorrow you could have the relationships of your dreams. What would that be like?
I want you to be to be extremely clear about this.
I know that you can have it.
I think you are not being clear enough. You see, how can you attract something when you don’t know what it is?
People get mad at the Law of Attraction because it doesn’t give them what they want. When they don’t even know what they want in the first place.
Today I would like you to examine your thoughts about your dating life. What are your thought patterns? What are you saying to yourself all day, every day, about this area of your life?
You have the choice. I know that the rest of the world is thinking negative most of the time. You can see it when you look at people.
People do not know how to think right. They let their minds think whatever comes up. Because humans have been negative for thousands of years, most people are continuing this cycle.
Your thoughts and your mindset are your most powerful tool in life. Most people using it self destructively, and they wonder why they’re not winning in life.
Not only that, but people all do it, because they think that “positive thinking” is a bunch of hogwash.
1. Your Thoughts Create Vibrations.
Our thoughts create a mood and a Feeling.
That emits a frequency. A wavelength.
When you get on the right wavelength, you put yourself in alignment with what you want.
Things like serendipity, coincidence, fate, karma, everything just fell into place, everything came out of the blue. These are all just expressions of the Law of Attraction.
So, let’s say that you would like to be more confident talking to the opposite sex.
Most people struggle with this area.
People can be shy just meeting new people. Especially hotties of the opposite sex.
Well let’s look at your thoughts towards that.
I would like you to tell me and write it down right now. What comes to your head when you think about talking to the opposite sex? Do you feel uncomfortable?
What are your beliefs about this?
They are going to dictate your behavior.
Your behavior is going to dictate your results.
2. Get Better Results With the Opposite Sex
Then you have to start thinking different thoughts.
These thoughts will create different beliefs. Different beliefs will create different behaviors and that will create different results.
This is where we have to get more specific. We have to get clear on the results we want.
I would like you to ask yourself these questions.
- Do I want to be more confident with the opposite sex?
- Do I want to be able to start the conversation with the opposite sex?
- Do I want to be able to confidently flirt with the opposite sex?
You have hundreds, and maybe thousands of beliefs about this area of your life.
Let’s call it your dating life or your love life.
If you want to change the beliefs, you have to change the thoughts that you are thinking. I’ve said this already about 50 times.
So let’s try an affirmation.
- I can confidently talk to the opposite sex!
How did that feel?
Did you get resistance?
The key then would be repetition.
If you want to try with a little more power, Lets use an Afformation (like affirmations on steroids)
- Why can I confidently talk to the opposite sex?
Okay let’s try some more.
3. Confidently Flirt with the Opposite Sex
Try this one out.
“I can confidently flirt with the opposite sex!”
How did that feel? Now let’s try an afformation.
“Why can I confidently flirt with the opposite sex?”
How was that for you?
You can also visualize yourself being how you want to be around the opposite sex.
You have a miraculous mind, and you can manifest with your visualizations.
Your mind has the power to create the frequency and vibration of the way you want it to be with the opposite sex.
This is useful for every area of your life.
It’s the same thing with socializing.
Let’s look at your beliefs with that. Socializing and meeting great people,
What comes to your mind about that?
You have beliefs about your personality and how likable you are. How great you are at making friends. How popular you are, all thse beliefs get matched by the law of attraction.
All this gets matched with the law of attraction.
4. Improve Your Dating Life
Well, what is it you want with that? Do you actually want it? Because you will have to do some work to get it.
Remember that the obstacles are there for a reason. They are in place to make sure that we want it bad enough to get it.
There is no such thing as something for nothing.
I would like you to answer these questions. Go write out your answers in your journal.
- What is my ideal dating life like?
- How many women or men am I seeing every week?
- What kind of dates do I like to go on?
- What are my ideal dates like?
- What is the ideal personality of the people that I’m dating?
Okay let’s do this for your friendship life as well.
Tell me what you’re friends are like.
Okay, so if you had your perfect friendship life. Write the answers down in your journal!
- How many days would you be going out every week?
- How many friends are you going out with?
- What kind of activities do you do with your friends?
- What are your friends like? Tell me about their personalities. And how they dress.
- What are your common interests with them?The more that you give this attention, energy, and focus, the more of it you will attract.
In both of these areas, chances are that you are not being clear enough as to what you would like to be experiencing on a regular basis.
You may not feel that you’re good enough, or that you can’t make friends. I’m not sure who you are, or where you’re at right now in your life. I know that I’ve gone through this very much myself.
You should use visualization, affirmations, and afformations.
5. Visualize Yourself Doing What You Want to Do Everyday.
And I know for a fact that you are holding yourself back from it.
You probably have your foot on the brake. You have fears and doubts. As well as limiting beliefs about it.
Just like every other area of your life. This is very normal. Like we have talked about, the world is pretty negative. You were programmed with all that negativity.
You are exposed to it every day. So you believe that is just the way it is.
The Law of Attraction obediently matches whatever vibes you are sending out about the world.
Law of attraction is basically a household name today. People talk about it all the time. Including celebrities and Highly Successful People.
While you are waiting to manifest things, it can take some time for things to happen.
And during this time, it’s easy to want to just sorry for yourself, or think negative thoughts all day.
This is what the strong majority of people are doing.
That does not mean that it is smart, nor does it mean that is what you should do.
Most people are not pursuing their dreams, they are unhappy, and all that other stuff.
Why would you try to be like them?
6. How Do You Want It All To Go?
When you turn 80, and you are given the chance to look back on your life. What regrets do you want to avoid?
What do you want to say that you achieved? Go write that down! and afform this every day. “Why am I living the life o my dreams?”
Keep your dreams secret. There is no reason to tell anyone, as they may affect your beliefs in achieving it.
Only listen to advice from people that are where you want to be.
Think the same thoughts as that person that you want to be. If you want to be married, think the same thoughts as you would if you were married. Ask yourself everyday
- Why Did I Get Married to the person of my dreams?”
- Why do I give and receive love in just the right ways?
- Why am I so richly blessed in love?
Or use afformations and visualize. Get a picture in your mind right now, of what you would like to experience.
Imagine yourself being popular. Having lots of great and wonderful friends. Do you notice how that sends a vibration out?
7. Do You Believe That You Could Be Popular?
Notice how your beliefs about it is attracting those results to you.
How about having friends of the opposite sex? Do you believe that’s possible for you?
Notice how the law of attraction is matching it and decide for yourself what it is that you would like to experience.
The Law of Attraction is always checking and matching your Vibes.
So by getting the inner world right, your outer World changes gradually to be the way you want it to be.
What are your thoughts about this?
Leave a comment below and thanks for reading.