Hi, let’s talk about why people do not get the results that they want with Law of Attraction.
You see, at least 1 billion people in the world believe In The Law of Attraction. What is that?
It must be because they’ve seen results of it. In order to actually believe in something, you need some kind of evidence.
This means that if there are 1 billion people in the world that believe in it, they must all have had success using the law of attraction.
So then why are people unable to manifest the things that they want?
I personally believe that it is the vibration that people are sending. You see, our beliefs are very strong.
I was recently watching a neuroscientist talk about how little our genetics actually play as a factor in who we are in our lives. For example, our personalities and all that.
In terms of Law of Attraction you want to see it as the following.
Words. Thoughts. Vibration. Results.
The vibration is what creates the results.
The key is to get the vibration. So then how do we get the vibration to manifest something that we want?
Well, we have to change our thoughts. In order to change our thoughts we have to change the words that we use.
The key factor is getting the vibration.
So whatever works for you to get the vibration, is what you should be using.
Do not let other people tell you how to manage your vibration.
What do I mean by the vibration? What I’m really talking about is getting the feeling. You see what the law of attraction is doing is responding to the feeling that you’re giving out.
In my last article, I talked about how to manifest love with the law of attraction.
I had good feedback from that article. Another Law of Attraction expert gave me the advice that I should be focusing more on the feeling. Rather than developing my character.
There is truth to what she was saying. I have manifested Love before, and I’ve manifested relationships before. The way I did it was by being one-hundred-percent detached, and forgetting about it completely.
Whenever I want something, it almost seems to be pushed away from me by the universe.
In this case, the advice I was given, was to generate the vibration of it. All of my manifestations, are from this.
However, there comes a point, when you need to take responsibility for your life.
To not rely on Miracles, or the law of attraction, to get the results you want.
I love the Law of Attraction, however, it is not a cop-out. It is not going to solve your life problems, or give you everything you want. I don’t care what the guru’s say.
If you ask any successful person in relationships and Business, they will tell you that they earned it through hard work.
This is the same for attracting a loving relationship. There is a truth to life, and that is success is something you attract from a type of person that you become.
The type of person that you become can only be from mindset and hard work.
I think emotions and vibrations play a big part in the law of attraction.
Our Emotions & Feelings Generate Certain Frequencies.
So lets say I have the unwavering belief that I’m going to attract love. If I can keep that emotion without it getting doubted. Then I will Attract it.
Doubt is everywhere. It is a very pessimistic and negative world. All you need to do is turn on the TV and or look at the news on the internet, and you will see a very horrible negative world. That is why I recommend you stop watching TV and looking at the news. It is a lot of garbage.
As we go through our day, we encounter negative people, negative situations, and on and on it goes. This creates a vibration for you.
So as I’m going about my day, I’m constantly feeling a certain way about all the areas in my life. We talked about how many emotions a person can feel. There are an incredible amount. Each one giving off a unique vibration.
All of us are carrying around different vibrations, and therefore we all attract different things to us on a regular basis. Hove you noticed this?
I’ve been experimenting with the law of attraction for 12 years. And I believe truly that our vibrations can manifest things for us. But our vibrations come from our thoughts.
Notice how your outer world and the things that you attract to you, are being brought to you because they are in alignment with what’s going on in your head. In particular your beliefs. Our unconscious beliefs not only dictate our Behavior, but dictate what kind of life we will live.
A belief is formed by thinking a certain thoughts over and over. It also comes from experiences with emotions attached. As well as when people form an opinion about us, we are influenced by that.
Our parents, siblings, friends, co-workers and associates influence us and program our subconscious Minds. Everyday we are being programmed by our outer worlds.
Do you think that’s a subconscious programming is some strange thing?
Then you have no idea what the truth actually is. Because you are constantly being programmed by the media, and you’re outer world which is always trying to get your money.
For this reason, it’s smart to change your programming. Simply think of subconscious programming as the thoughts that you are thinking all day everyday. Because that is what it is forming your beliefs. And your beliefs determine what you can and can’t do.
It is a person’s mindset, and beliefs, which will determine how far they go in life. How much success they have in their life and in their business.
What kind of spouse they have, what kind of friends they have, how many friends, what kind of work they do, how good they are doing their work, getting promoted at work, your financial situation, how much money you have in the bank, Investments, business ventures.
It all comes from the inner world.The mindset is what creates the vibration. Take a look at your own inner world. What kind of thoughts are you having? What kind of results are you seeing from those thoughts?
As you go about today, say to yourself
This Is Here Because of Me!
This is why gratitude is such a powerful emotion. And everybody recommends it. If you are carrying around the vibration of gratitude, you will continue to attract good things.
Do not allow your mind to think a single negative thought. This is much easier said than done. Everyone is at a different place in their Journey.
All of us are coming from a different place.
Attracting people to us is a very similar thing. We tend to attract people that we are compatible with. If a person is interested in soccer, you will notice that they naturally are drawn to, and we’ll make friends with people that are sharing the same interests.
“The same birds of the same feather, flock together”. “like attracts like”. Why does this happen?
Do not dismiss it, and do not dismiss happiness as something that is just not for you. Being happy is an important thing, and you will be doing good in the world by being a happier person. The more happier you are, the better.
Surrounding yourself with the right people is critical to not just your success, but maintaining a Good Vibration. There is a saying, show me your friends, and I will show you your future.
The people that you are around, are going to influence your vibration. That is why I recommend only being around winners. Do not surround yourself with negative complainers, and miserable people.
Either be around winners, or be alone. It is better to be alone than be in Bad Company.
Your inner world, the thoughts that you think all day, should be as rich as possible. What thoughts are you having all day? Take a look at the thoughts that you’re having, and notice how they are a perfect match for your Outer World.
Notice how your unconscious beliefs about what you can and can’t do directly influence your behavior?
That is How Powerful Your Beliefs Actually Are.
That is why I advise to fix your beliefs. Trying to be a winner in life, without winning in your mind, is pointless. You will not be successful with that.
It is repetition that creates the belief. Repetition and emotion. For example Muhammad Ali says” its reputation of affirmations that leads to a belief, and once I believe becomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen.”
When Muhammad Ali was affirming to himself “I’m the greatest!” I guarantee he was feeling good when he was saying it.
I guarantee you he was not getting a negative rejection feeling from the from the conscious mind filter.
The affirmation that he was using felt good for him. He probably used many others. It was his mindset that made him so powerful and he literally lived his affirmation. Once he believed it and literally became is reality.
Muhammad Ali is a perfect example of the power of mindset. You can watch him throughout his career, and see how incredibly powerful he actually was because of it.
Let’s say you were going to use some afformations. And you are going to see yourself “I’m good enough”.” I can do it.” “I like myself.” If they do not feel good, then you are basically wasting your time and energy.
If you are saying I’m good enough and it feels good to you then that means you are having success and installing that new belief. Keep it up and soon enough it will be your reality.
If you get a negative emotion when you use the affirmation. That means it is getting rejected. That means it is not working. It means that it is not going to become a belief for you. You have to find a way to get it to feel good.
Unless you are using afformations(invented by Noah St John) which do not require feeling.
If you are a visual person. Then use visualization. Go get yourself a vision board and that is a great way to send good energy towards what you want. Which is what the law of attraction is responding to.
The Law of Attraction Is Eavesdropping
It’s matching the feelings that you are sending out while you look at the things that you want more of. This is why highly successful people will tell you that you should go look at your dream house. And your dream car. That is why it is so important to be so precise and clear about what you want.
Most people are not clear enough about what it is that they want to attract. Because of this they just attract random stuff. I myself go to through this. I have a hard time deciding what I even want.
For example, I know I want to get married and I have success in my life. But that is not being clear enough. In this case a good idea for me would be to be giving marriage more positive energy. To be giving the successful life I want to live more positive energy.
What is it that you want to experience more of in the next 6 months to 1 year? If you could have anything you want? Don’t hold back!
Just be aware that you will have to pay a price. However the Law of Attraction is nosy and knows the shortest and most convenient route for you to get there. As long as you are willing to do the work, it will guide you there as quickly as it can.
Accept that this is planet Earth, and stop feeling sorry for yourself.
When you feel sorry for yourself, you attract more negative things. The Law of Attraction doesn’t care.
Remember, the law of attraction is always checking and matching, At every moment, including right now!
Law of attraction is’ always eavesdropping on our vibrations.
Let go of the past. Forget what it was. It doesn’t have any significance over the future that you want to create. It doesn’t have to. You were giving it that power.
You are stronger, more capable, and brave then you ever thought possible.
The key to tapping into your power will be to create the ideal self that you want to be.
The way to create this new self is through subconscious programming. Through using either affirmations, afformations (very powerful – like affirmations on steroids), visualization, and visualization boards.
What are your thoughts about this? Do you think the Law of Attraction really works?
Thanks for reading, and leave a comment below.