Hi, if you are thinking about love, then I would like to help you manifest it into your life.
Love is a big deal. It is a serious commitment and an emotional roller coaster ride.
We all want to attract that perfect person, and we wonder, if they are even out there waiting for us? Well the truth is that there is an ABUNDANCE of suitable partners out there just waiting for you. Yes YOU.
1. Get Clear on Things
You may not be ready for love yet. Only you know if you are.
However, to assist in the manifestation process of attracting your ideal loving relationship you should get clear on what that looks like.
Let’s activate the law of attraction to bring it to you by writing it down.
I would like you to to come up with a minimum of 25 qualities that you want your future loving partner to have, then write those down.2.
2. Define Your Ideal Loving Relationship
Lets do a fun exercise. I would like you to answer each of these questions. Write down your answers to each for these questions.
What does you ideal significant other look like? (hair color, hair style, how they dress)
How old is he/she?
Are they introverted or extroverted?
How tall is your ideal partner?
How does he/she like to spend their time in the evening?
What do you guys do on the weekend?
What is the body type of your future partner? How tall?
Does your ideal partner drink alcohol, smoke cigarettes, smoke pot, or use drugs?
Does he/she share your interests? What do you guys talk about a lot?
What is the personality type of your ideal significant other? (laid back, assertive, quiet, talkative)
Do you work together on your business, or does your future partner do something else?
Does you significant other have lots of friends, or only a few?
How does your ideal significant other express their affection to you?
3. Write Down Your Vision
My ideal loving partner is Chinese (I have been studying how to speak Chinese for 2 years now), with shoulder length hair.
She is extroverted and is in her 20’s. She dresses well and has good style.
She is about 5’10. In the evenings she has her own passions and hobbies. She works with me on our home based business as well.
She enjoys listening to me play the guitar and is supportive of me. On the weekend we stay at home.
We may spend time with friends on Saturday night. She will be a homebody like myself and she will help me with cleaning. She is a great cook.
She will be skinny like me, she will not smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol (that much) once we are in a relationship. She will be healthy and exercise. She will not use pot that often and does not do drugs.
She is assertive and speaks her mind. She is business minded like myself and doesn’t do drama. She is focused on serving humanity. She enjoys talking to me and we have amazing conversations together regularly.
Me and my significant other do not have friends outside of each other. We have a social group that we love to hang out with. It is quite big around 20-30 terrific people.
My significant other is affectionate. She is passionate about me, and enjoys being with me. She loves talking to me and appreciates me.
4. Focusing On The Self Image.
To manifest your ideal loving relationship, I recommend that you use the power of positive self talk to recreate your self image.
We have 3 methods available. Visualization, affirmations, and my personal favorite afformations – created by Noah St John.
I recommend that you reprogram your subconscious mind and give it the programming it needs to attain the loving relationship of your dreams.
Every human being has subconscious programming. Throughout life we have millions of thoughts.
These thoughts create your beliefs. Every human being has thousands of subconscious beliefs about themselves.
It is these beliefs that dictate your behavior. How you talk, dress, make friends, succeed at work and socialize are all controlled through your subconscious beliefs.
Your self image (subconscious beliefs) control all of your results. Your love life, communication skills, career success are all coming from your self image.
5. Manifest Love Using The Law of Attraction
The next step is to start thinking like the future person you want to be.
Method 1 – Visualizing.
Are you one of those people who love to visualize? Are you naturally good at it? Can you easily imagine and get a clear picture of images when you do it?
If not then don’t worry you can still use other 2 methods. I only recommend visualizing for people that enjoy it..
Imagine your ideal loving partner beside you right now. What is he/she wearing? what does he/she say to you?
Picture yourself waking up every morning with your ideal loving partner and seeing yourself having dinner with them at night.
See yourself vacationing with the partner of your dreams, and taking them out to your favorite activities. .
That’s visualization. Make sure that you are getting the feeling, because that is what it’s all about in the law of attraction world. It should feel good.
Method 2 – Affirmations
Humans are thinkers. We think thousands of thoughts all day, every day. Successful people will tell you that its all about using positive self talk. Its all about the self image.
It is our self talk that creates our self image, and our self image is what dictates our behavior. It is behavior that creates results.
Remember it’s all about the feeling. It should feel good. In my personal experience. If affirmations do not feel good then they do not have any effect.
I am loved,
I am giving and receiving love in just the right ways now,
I am truly loved and loving
My love life is fulfilling
I am in a loving relationship with the partner of my dreams.
I am proud to be the loved and loving person that I am
If those feel good then affirmations may just be a great way to go for you. I personally do not use them as I have tried them for many years but my results were unsatisfactory.
For example, because my confidence has been terrible my whole life, and I say “I am confident” It just didn’t work for me. If it feels good then use it. If not, then there is still method 3.
Method 3 – Afformations (Jake’s Favorite)
Afformations were created by Noah St John.
They work like this. Instead of using statements such as “I am loved”. We use questions such as “Why am I so loved?”
This method has given me amazing results. Which is why I promote it. It is not magic, you will still need to do the work. However it is my favorite way to install the self image you desire.
Here are some examples:
Why am I safe to love?
Why do I have so much love in my life?
Why am I so grateful to be so truly loved and loving?
Why is my life the life of a truly loved, loving, happy, and whole person?
Why am I in an incredibly loving relationship with the partner of my dreams?
My favorite thing about afformations is that they are scientific. If you use them then your brain must search for an answer.
This method also works best with feeling. In my opinion, its more sneaky and indirect. It still effects the subconscious however feeling is not a requirement with this method.
That is why I find law of attraction so fascinating.
The expressions “everything just fell into place, serendipity, coincidence, meant to be, fate, karma, are all examples of the law of attraction at work.
That is why patience and faith are so important. Keep your dreams secret.
If you are truly serious then I also recommend Noah St Johns Afformations. I use his iafform audios. I also read, write and say them out loud all day every day. Including at work (don’t tell my boss).
They are the worlds best Law of attraction tool for programming the subconscious mind.
Check out my truthful review of Afformations and Noah St John by clicking here.